Aawww....that's sad about hubby.
The reason I asked, and you have answered my question, is because women who have a couple of distractions like kids or hubby.....and a hubby that doesn't show a support, would be kinda tough in this trade. I mean, you need some support, if you aren't getting it a 100% at work, if you know what I mean.
I'm not saying women, or even men, can't handle a job and family, just saying you would need one partner helping out with balancing what the family needs, while the other is working. Especially one that is a lineman.
Like the other morning I said I'd be in Gainesville for a dentist appt. and could the Boss meet me for lunch maybe. I was teasing, but sometimes they do stop in town for a bite to eat----if they are around. He said, "Dear, I'm not like you----a lady of leisure---I actually WORK for a living."
It's okay. I know he wouldn't want my job---even though I work in A/C and on a computer, sometimes dealing with irritatible parents and a few teenagers-----he wouldn't trade places with me. Balancing---keyword.
Again, good luck. Uh.....and where are the pics?